I would like to document every step of my immigration to Canada. I am American (Dayment), married to a Canadian (Sean), and we have always lived in the US, as Sean had permanent residence in the US since before we met. We have been together sixteen years, ten of those married, as we begin our process to apply for Sponsorship to Canada.
Tons of information comes from the Canadian Immigration Club. If you are immigrating to Canada, I highly recommend you join their mailing list.
I plan to keep this page updated throughout our application process, until I am a Permanent Resident of Canada.

05-25-05
What happens after the passport request

Next step - mail passport via FedEx with return FedEx envelope so it should only take a couple weeks to get it back, instead of three-four weeks.

Once I get my passport back it will have some sort of page attached, and I take my passport to the border to land.
BUT!
When I land, that means I LAND. Like I'm MOVING THERE. But I'm not, so I need to bring that Goods to Follow list, which is that list telling them every single thing I'm bringing up/importing at a later date. So I told
Sean to go ahead and write down everything that's in the garage and outside this weekend - that's his assignment while I'm partying in Van. Turns out he needs a day just to figure out which computer parts don't work and dispose of them - this is going to be a slow process - I can already tell). Man, this list is gonna SUCK - it's a list of EVERYTHING WE OWN - with its VALUE calculated. By the time I get my passport back I hope to have the Goods to Follow List done (we also have to write the serial numbers of all electronics AND I have to get all this paperwork from Honda USA to import my car). I also need to bring VERY SPECIFIC pictures of my face for them to put on my Green Card.

THEN.
After I do this I can leave Canada (drive back to Seattle), but they will only send that finished green card to a Canadian Address (we'll use our cousin's address). Thankfully we live close to the border so it's easier to go up there to land and leave again to pack!

That green card can also take some weeks to arrive. In that time we should be seriously hitting the books trying to get jobs and a place to live for three cats and a giant fish tank.

OH MY GOD THE FISH TANK.

WITH THE FISH.

IN THE TANK.


AND THE JOBS.

So by the time we could seriously move, you know, into a house that's waiting for us up there (and by house I mean apartment since Van prices are higher than here if you can believe that) it may be August. Sean says
beginning of August. I say end of August - which is - MY BIRTHDAY! A great time for another August Everything Party! With a Twist! We're leaving!


My point is - Estella? Can you visit in August sometime? I promise I'll try to have an official party date for you as soon as I possibly can. Because you and my boss really want to know. But my boss for other reasons. ("Congratulations! So when are you leaving?" Yeah. There's that stress, too.)


Oh, and more fun! I take the green card, once it shows up at the Canadian address, to the place (Canadian Immigration e-mail list? Help me out here?) to get my SIN card (Canada's Social Security) and get a SIN number that I can use to legally get a job. There are usually some delays there and you can't collect a paycheck until you have it. It just means that my first paycheck could be a whopper with many weeks' pay on it.


After three months I am covered by Canada's health care. (Edited here, because I rambled on about a baby and fertility etc.)


I gazelled out to Sean's car at 6:30 pm last night - stuck the letter against his driver's side window, and my eyes welled up as I watched his face reading the letter from the Canadian Consulate. Then he got out of the car and we hugged in the front yard, crying. It was a movie scene.


F--K ISN'T THIS THE SCARIEST S--T?
scd.
P.S. You're all invited to the Going Away Party, whether it's at our house or Neumo's niteclub, BTW.

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05-24-05
After months of absolutely no information...
The passport request arrived in yesterday's mail.
Here is when the chaos begins.

01-24-05
Well I guess that ends that:
(via e-mail)
Dear Ms. Dayment,
I have sent off to the Canadian Consulate in Buffalo your case disposition which at this time is - purged, this case has been destroyed due to the case being over ten years old. I'm sorry but we are unable to send any case information to you or the consulate.
You can see the letter that I sent to the consulate stating the same thing to them (see attachment sent with this e-mail, you will need MS Word to open it).
If you have any questions you can contact the Justice Court Clerks Office at phone number: 702-455-4436.
Thanks,
David Loyd-LOA II
Las Vegas Justice Court-Criminal Records
The letter he attached (which he sent to the Consulate):
1/24/2005

To: Canadian Consulate
Immigration Regional Program GR
3000 HSBC Center
Buffalo, NY 14203-2884
REQUEST FOR COURT RECORDS – CRIMINAL RECORDS
CASE NUMER: 90F00244A
DEFENDANT NAME: CULVER, ------------- aka DAYMENT, --------------------
Your request for Criminal(s) records has been received. The record(s) you requested are no longer available. In accordance with records destruction rules established by the Nevada Supreme Court, the record has been destroyed.
Pursuant to NRS 239.110(10), the Supreme Court has created a “Local Courts Records Retention Manual,” and this manual states the following standard:
“Docket containing entries on papers filed, court actions, judgments, etc. in criminal cases.” have a retention period of ten (10) years after case is closed.
We are sorry we could not assist you. If you have further questions, please contact the Las Vegas Justice Court Clerk’s Office at 702-455-4436.
By: ___________________________________
David Loyd-DEPUTY CLERK
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(Looks like my rap sheet won't help me after all.)

01-23-05
Again, I'm just going to cut-and-paste the e-mail I sent out:
UPDATE
My files can not be found at Clark County District Court or Las Vegas Municipal Court, as they *are* able to look up my name. So that narrows it down to Clark County Justice Court, who are the ones, sadly, who must
have the case number to retrieve my files.
My attorney from 1990? He's not dead! He's in Virginia. We had a lovely phone conversation this morning. He also gave me a LOT of advice.
1. He believes that we would have, in fact, gone to Clark County Justice Court - the very ones who can't locate my file unless I give them my case number.
2. If I contact Las Vegas Metropolitan Police Department, they should have a case number because it's assigned at the time of my arrest.
3. If the FBI simply has "Felony" written on my file, then something's wrong. It should state the information about my court proceedings and would have stated that the record became a misdemeanor.
4. Once I give my case number to Justice Court, I should make sure that they also copy and send it to CJIS Records at the FBI to update my FBI file.
5. Or, I can pay $30 to have my records sealed, and since there have been no further arrests, even the FBI wouldn't list any of it. It would just state "no record."
So.
I contacted the FBI and they verified that my records are not properly updated, by the fault of Clark County Justice Court. They don't show the misdemeanor because they never received that information way back
then.
I found out how to order my "rap sheet" (sheesh!) from the LVMPD. It's $14 with a notarized letter of request. Should take two weeks total turn-around time.
Once I have that rap sheet, I will have the case number to use with Clark County Justice Court for them to find my archived file, which they will copy for me once I give them about $15 to cover the guessed
charges.
Another one-week turn-around if I can get Cyndi to walk over to Justice Court and give them $15 cash.
I typed and notarized my letter to LVMPD at lunch today.
I will mail it in tomorrow's mail (can't do FedEx this week since Sean's working for Shane and it isn't easy for him to go to Kinko's [to use his super-mega-FedEx discount] unless it's late at night, so forget it).
So in about three weeks I should have something to send to the Canadian Consulate in Buffalo to complete the Request for Information.
Keep in mind this looks great on paper (monitor) but we'll see if it really all goes according to plan, and everyone complies with what they are *supposed* to do.
Thankyouverymuch.
scd.
www.daymented.com

P.S. If you have no idea what I'm talking about, then you didn't get my e-mail two days ago. Which would make this e-mail pretty funny.
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01-19-05
I'm just going to cut-and-paste the e-mail I sent out today:
Ya know, I can never remember who I am sending these updates to, so if you have no idea what I'm talking about, just read and nod along....
The end of December, Sean was approved and our immigration application was sent to Buffalo, where they spend a few months doing security checks on me, my Mom and Dad, step-Mom and step-Dad, and my step-brother Todd. They also verify that we have a "real" relationship, I have no outstanding warrants, I can speak enough English to survive in Canada, I can stomp my age with my hoof, etc.
Once this is done, they check my medical exam (already completed and sent to them), make sure we paid the fee, and request my passport. That's when the fun actually begins.
There's been another Request for Information.
Unfortunately I have a petty larceny misdemeanor* from January 1990 on my record (I was 19). But when I was arrested, it was a Felony Embezzlement charge. Now - according the Nevada background check, I have No Record (because my plea bargain said if I have no more arrests in 3 years, my record is cleared). BUT - my FBI background check shows a felony arrest in 1990. (*voiding sales from May Company department store with my supervisor - if the losses at the time of arrest are over $100, it's a felony. My one and only court case was a plea bargain that dropped it to the misdemeanor with a $300 fine. Someday I will tell you about my night in a Las Vegas holding cell.) (No I won't.)
I have no paperwork to show the transition from felony to misdemeanor, and Canada needs proof that it did, in fact, go down to a misdemeanor.
SO! I call Clark County (Nevada), then another person in Clark County, etc. etc. Someone finally tells me that my records are mine, so I can have them for free, I just need to type a letter with every bit of info that I need and they will copy it for me, and mail it back.
Although, arrest records from before 1991 are not on computers. They are in boxes in archives. Remember, my arrest was 1990.
I FedEx my request for my records with another pre-paid FedEx envelope addressed to the Canadian Consulate in Buffalo and cross my fingers.
For over two weeks.
Today I called and after MUCH run-around, I discover that my request is at the wrong floor of the SAME BUILDING. Just sittin' around. And I have to make multiple long-distance phone calls just to get them to route the damn thing (my FedEx envelopes) one floor down. Because you know District Court is not the same as Justice Court DUH you should know that if you're an architectural receptionist and barista and blogger and knitter....
Then someone says I have to pay a per-sheet fee now.
It's isn't free after all.
"How much?"
"Thirty cents per page"
"Can you bill me?"
"No, we won't process the request until its paid for."
"How do I know how many pages it is?"
"You will have to guess."
"Can you help me guess?"
"Maybe 8 dollars, maybe 10"
"Can I read you my Visa number?"
"We don't have that capability here"
"How do I pay you?"
"You'll have to come in"
"I'm in Seattle"
"You'll have to FedEx us a check"
"For a guessed amount? Hmmm... This really SUCKS."
I finally call my old friend Cyndi, who JUST SO HAPPENS to work at Clark County (in another capacity, but good enough!) She is now being told that I need my record number, and they have NO WAY of finding my record in the archives without it (not social security number, not date of birth). I don't know what my record number was - I don't think I ever did. Hell, I've never even seen what my mug shot looks like (and I hope I never do). Cyndi looked up my attorney's name (Zervis?) and he's not listed. I am RIPPING MY HAIR OUT here. Cyndi has multiple e-mails and phone calls going on at her end and I am just sitting here waiting for someone to tell me how I can get my arrest/court record to Canada. So far, there's no way. Doesn't that seem silly?!?
So here we sit. Canada needs proof that I'm not a felon. Clark County, Nevada needs a record number from my arrest in 1990 to prove that I'm not a felon. You know those moments in your life where you think "This is going to come back to haunt me" well here we are.
Everybody rub the Buddha and hope that Cyndi meets someone nice at the County Justice office who says "Okay let's figure this out" and she can save the day.
I will keep you all posted (unless you reply to this e-mail with "remove" in the subject line).
HA!
scd.
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P.S. Thanks to all of my friends and family who e-mailed me back with positive words. I love you guys.

10-06-04
Assembled all of the paperwork today. Need to make two additional copies of Schedule 1 - Background/Declaration (they ask for three copies for each applicant). Need to photocopy Sean's Green Card for the US (just to be sure). Then I will copy the whole set of everything we sent them, then get the international money order from the post office (or I may pay online and print the receipt), then it's off the the post office to mail it all. Should be done and in the

Paperwork required
mail by Friday at the latest!
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09-22-04
Off it goes. It sold for $2000. Remember when I had my suspicions about that guy who won the bid on Ebay? I was right. He flaked. So we offered it to another guy who had bid on it (but lost) and told him it was still for sale, and he sent a cashier's check and a towing truck a few days later to pick it up. He's a mechanic. Thankfully.
Oddly (karmically?) my FBI report showed up in the mail the same day as the cashier's check for the VW. That was the last item we needed for the immigration application, besides the money. Which is why we sold the VW. So you see? It was a great day.
We don't have a printer, so we had to go to my work to print the application.
To the left are my essays. They answer those questions like "What have you been doing since you were eighteen? Do not leave any gaps" and "Explain how your relationship developed" and my favorite "When and where did you meet your sponsor's family and friends? Give the dates." Also, and I ask you, do ANY of you know exactly every address you've lived at since you were eighteen? That took a lot of sleuthing. Then once I finally had all the addresses, I realized that they also wanted the phone numbers for every address. WHY? Will they check our phone bills?!? Do you remember every phone number you've ever had? I'm good with phone numbers but some of those places I don't WANT to remember that well!
One more step to complete - Sean's intent to move back to Canada - in proof.
He is sending a resume and cover letter to Kinko's Vancouver and whatever response we get from Kinko's Vancouver is going in the application. And I hope that's enough, because the other options that Canada will accept are a down payment on a home, a signed rental lease, or acceptance into a university. Kinko's it is.
THIS SUCKER'S ALMOST IN THE MAIL, PEOPLE. Are you as freaked out as I am?!??!
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08-15-04
Immigration Medical Exam
Of all the medical practitioners in Seattle, Canadian Immigration allows me to choose from two. This is the one I chose. I signed away $380 at this place. It's a shame I couldn't take pictures of the inside, because trust me, they are just as telling. I gave her my life's medical history, and whatever runs in the family (bad eyes, that's about it). Blood drawn, hearing tested, pushing on me, etc. After all this, I was sent to the International District (formerly known as Chinatown before it was deemed un-PC) to get the chest x-rays done. The x-rays will be sent to the Dr., which will then be sent to Canadian Immigration. I got an official looking receipt with my picture on it (I had to bring 4 pictures of myself) and there's a big red maple leaf stamped on it!
Next steps: filling out all of the final forms, and mailing it in with the $$$$$$$$. We still have not been paid for the car, even though the auction ended July 19. Yes we are nervous.
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08-07-04
Received passport in the mail today!
Appointment for medical scheduled for Thursday, August 12
Re-took immigration photos, since I found out that they can't be on glossy paper, and I can't show my teeth.
FBI and state background requests were mailed July 21 (took longer than I thought to fill out paperwork and mail).
Sean spoke to the guy who bought his car on Ebay, who verified that he's getting the car shipped, and Sean ordered a copy of his title from Washington DMV (should take 4 weeks).
Received Mutual Fund check and cashed out majority of PayPal donations ($220) for Immigration bank account (which I will use to pay for medical, which is $380).
Tried unsuccessfully to sell shoes on Ebay, barely broke even with listing costs and shipping costs.
Started resume, got advice from about 15 friends. Need a second draft.
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07-15-04
Got the last of my fingerprinting done ($10 and $4 for parking).
Contacted the Canadian Consulate to try to get Sean a new SIN card (pretty much like the social security card in the US but it stands for Social Insurance Number - you need it to get medical and have a job up there). Sean hasn't had a SIN card in years (I don't even know where it went), and we have to get his birth certificate from Ontario to replace it. This, for some reason, is a very difficult task.
Printed off my background request letters to three states and the FBI to mail (with my fingerprints)
Got Money Orders to send with the background request letters.
Today at lunch I'm going to mail those letters. As far as I know, those are all of my plans for the day - I'm still waiting for the Mutual Fund $300 check to show up in the mail, then I'll make my medical appointment.
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07-12-04
Today I:
Left work at 12:30 to take care of many things. First stop was my passport photos at Fred Meyer (normally $7.99 for two, but they trained a new girl how to do it, so I got four pictures for the same price)
Opened new bank account
Got my passport in Shoreline, which is mailed, and should arrive in 6 weeks ($85)
Stopped by my landlords house to make a couple phone calls, ate some pineapple (free)
Got three sets of fingerprints ($10) (their limit without an appointment), made appointment for Wednesday morning at 8:30 for the other four sets. Ran into Sally while I was there - that was funny!
Paid $4 for parking while getting fingerprints
Transferred $200 of PayPal donations into new bank account (should take 2-3 days)
Called investment company in Indiana to cash out $300 (should take 10 days)
Put Sean's VW Corrado on Ebay. ($43 listing fee)
Called Social Security, who told me to call the IRS*, who told me to call DMV, to find my old addresses. DMV told me the Washington address I needed.
*While on the phone with the IRS, I found out that our tax refund for 2003 was declined, as there was an error on our Turbo Tax filing, which I will never, ever use again. Now we have to re-file. And Turbo Tax cost us something like $40.
Called my Uncle Wes' Real Estate company in Indiana, who told me the name of our apartments in Elkhart. I called them and found out our apartment number. I now know every address I've lived at since I was 18!
Posted Sean's VW Corrado Ebay auction on a Corrado Club website (pending approval by webmaster)
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July 11, 2004
This weekend I:

finished my essays
assembled photos as required to prove our relationship (dating pictures, Christmas pictures with our families, wedding pictures showing members of both of our families and friends). Sean will print them tomorrow (we don't have a printer, so it's a good thing he works at Kinko's!)
Got birth date and birth place information for my Mother, Father, and step-brother Todd.
Looked up the phone number for my investment company in Indiana so I can sell $300 of my $500 Mutual Fund (to pay for medical).
Assembled items for Sean to photocopy at work: both of our birth certificates, my business license (they don't ask for it but I'm sending it anyway), request letter for my background release (times seven), Sean's most current paycheck stub, our 2003 W-2's, our marriage license.
Started this web page.
Plans for the following week (or, notes to myself):
The Social Security Administration office is, miraculously, just blocks from my house. They aren't open until 9 a.m., though, so I will call first on Monday to see if they can give me my old addresses, and if so, I will leave work early to get them.*
* I will be leaving work early anyway, as I'm going to get my fingerprints done at the police (probably north Seattle). They charge $5 for the first set, then $2.50 for each additional set. I'm getting seven sets.
I am calling the investment company first thing tomorrow morning to cash out $300 of that mutual fund. I should get that check by Friday, I hope.
I am opening a checking account on my lunch break. I was going to try to get a savings account, but my Dad said with this small of an amount, (plus I'll be spending all of it,) I might as well just get another checking account. I want whatever account that has free money orders, since that's what I'll be using about twenty times in the next year.
Once I have the new account, I'm transferring $200 from PayPal into that account.
Filling out all background release request letters, including FBI background check request.
Taking that picture of myself and making 20 copies. Also go to Fred Meyer to get 4 passport photos (they are a bit different)
Making an appointment for medical exam/x-rays (once I know that check is on its way)
Opening an Ebay account to start selling our stuff online.
Buying money orders for FBI and each state (I lived in five states in the past ten years)
Sean needs his boss to type a letter stating how long he's been employed, his salary, and his hours. Hopefully we can have that by Friday.
Get a passport
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July 2004
The first few things I need to do:
Obtain a US passport
Take a picture of myself according to the photo rules (see Appendix C), and copy that photo about 20 times
Remember every address I've lived at since I was eighteen. I'm missing two - I hope to go to my local Social Security Administration office to obtain that information. I'm not sure if they can give it to me, but I would think they could by using my social security number.
Started writing essays for some of the longer questions (i.e. Everything I've been doing since I was 18, how my & Sean's relationship developed, when and where we met each other's family members, etc.)
Called the two doctors allowed by Canada to perform my medical. The guy at HealthSouth is $420, the woman in South Seattle is $380. She wins. They tell me I have to go to two different offices (one for the exam, another for the x-ray), but I just pay that one price. They also informed me that I can get an appointment within a few days of calling.
Printed the following lists: how to obtain my state background releases, FBI background check, and Importing my Car into Canada. (All info from the Canadian Immigration Club website)

June 2004

Printed all of the applications for Sponsorship to Canada (from abroad) from Canada's Immigration website. I spent a few days reading every single word, and highlighting important information. I also began a list of all the items and information that we will need to compile.
I then made a chart with the order in which we will begin the process.
I also posted a donation button for PayPal on my personal website. I will use those donations for the pre-application spending (see above).